Don’t be funny. Do you believe that career and family can really balance?

has a hot topic recently, that is, can career and family balance for women? All over the network are swiping the screen.

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I am often asked this question, probably because in the eyes of many people, I have two children in three years, and I resigned as a freelancer to fly.

I share many times, and I have time management and energy management after having children. But notice, it’s XX management. Just because it can’t be balanced in nature, it needs external management.

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my daily life is like this: get up at 7-8 o’clock, send my son downstairs to find grandma or grandma for breakfast, and I’ll feed my sister. After feeding, I was awake and started to work after breakfast. At 9 o’clock, my aunt will help to take my children home to do housework for a whole day, so I can work or go out for fitness all day, the old man and aunt will take the children out to play, in the middle, I will go downstairs if I have time, and my son will go upstairs if he has nothing to do. I’ll go to bed with you at night. Nurse your sister before you go to bed. I work when my brother and sister sleep. What time does

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usually go to bed? Go to bed at 12 o’clock and cry happily, usually 1-2 o’clock. Lie down and fall asleep for three seconds. It’s not sleeping, it’s fainting. What

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have increased this year is that they take their son out for early education and art classes three mornings a week, basically leaving at 8 o’clock and returning at 12 o’clock. Leaving at 8 o’clock means getting up at 6 o’clock and getting ready. Usually I’m too tired to get back. I seldom take a nap in the afternoon, because I am afraid that I will not wake up in the afternoon if I fall asleep, which will delay too many things, so I am reluctant to sleep.

work is full every day, and my assistant can’t understand my schedule. I have to go downstairs to play with the children at any time. I have to deal with all kinds of problems at home, ranging from the express delivery to the water pipe cracking and the air conditioner leaking. Fortunately, the property works very well. Every time I call, I have to pay for it.

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I’m very grateful to our parents and aunts on both sides, and I’ll try my best to help us. However, I’m still very tired. So worry a lot. Children at home and work should worry.

maybe you want to ask, dad? Why doesn’t dad worry?

Dad is also very hard. Dad has to work every day. He has to work late. He is too tired to get home. At least I don’t have to rush to the company to master the time. If you don’t go out at home, naturally you should worry a little more. I’m just as tired. Why should I worry more? Because it’s cheap, but also because I love my husband. Although he tried to help me share a lot of things after work. He got up in the middle of the night to let me sleep more, but maybe it was the tacit love of the other side, so that he was more willing to pay more.

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of course, there are still many fathers who are irresponsible, no matter what, they will play mobile phones every day, and they will not understand anything. Then what shall I do? If it’s me, I might have run away with my children and money. I’m not upset when I’m out of sight. I’m comfortable with a few obstacles. Anyway, it’s no different from a single mother.

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once went on a business trip for 10 days a few months ago. They took their daughter to nurse and put their son at home. It’s said that since I left on business, my son has been unhappy. Every day, he stands by the window and looks out, calling: “Mom, sister.” Maybe he didn’t understand. Why did his mother and sister suddenly disappear?

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couldn’t help but let my grandparents take my son to the place where I was on a business trip and stay in the same hotel. When they got to the hotel, I was still filming in the mountains and forests. When I got to the hotel in the evening, my son was going to sleep. He pretended not to see me smile, and then suddenly fell on me. Since then, I have taken him with me when I fly to all parts of the world on business.

tired? Tired, why not. It’s not as easy to bring a child as a dog. He has his own ideas and ideas to eat and drink. It’s impossible for him to fully cooperate with you. You need to coax him with 100% combat power at any time. At the same time, you need to work with 200% combat power.

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you may say, after all, they are freelancers. They are very free. They sleep when they want to sleep, play when they want to play. How happy they are to take their children at will. Although I did a lot of things after resigning, I didn’t know until I did. I was very tired. I really don’t think it’s tiring to work hard. There’s no pressure. We all carry it together. We carry it ourselves. Any question can’t be said and can’t be said and can’t be said and can’t be done by others, but to me, there must be answers and results. I’ll take all the responsibilities and risks on my own. Everyone else can have a weekend. I don’t have one. I have to stay 24 hours. If you don’t pay attention to it, it will be totally destroyed. There is suffering everywhere. It’s not going to run at all. It’s going to run inch by inch. Now I know that money is not earned, it is earned.

resentment? No, because this is life. If you want to be dignified before you, you have to suffer after you.

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I am a person with a lot of desires. I want a lot of things. I want villas, good food, good school, good environment and good medical treatment, so I have to pay more. This principle, I not only understand, but also willing to practice. I am also prone to introspection. I always feel that I am not good enough and that I am incompetent and self abased.

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I am very lucky. After resigning, many people came to me to do various things and activities. At first, I was very moved, because as long as I agreed, there would be a lot of money. But several times I was so tired that I couldn’t see my child for a day at home before I realized that I didn’t quit because I wanted to be a freelancer. I quit because I wanted to accompany my child. Nothing is bigger than a child’s company. Although I work in my study most of the time, I try to find a little bit

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